Audre Lorde

"Black women have been taught to view each other as always suspect, heartless competitors for the scarce male, the all important price that could legitimize our existence. This dehumanizing denial of self is no less lethal than the dehumanization of racism to which it is so closely allied."

– Audre Lorde

Women are not defined by their bodies/looks, and women are not defined in relation to men.